It is becoming a near daily thing that some parent has been accosted by authorities because a child was allowed to go to a park or walk to school by themselves. If we are trying to raise independent and capable adults, I am not so sure the intervention helps.
Experience is great teacher. If society thinks children can be immunized from the real world, they will learn differently in a decade or two. Worse still, parents may adopt the over-protective manual and do even more harm.
Like adults, the learn little from things that go right. They learn a great deal when things go wrong. Provide them the opportunity to have things work out differently than they had hoped.
Give them an allowance in exchange for work. Help them understand how saving works and how expenses are lumpy. Let them spend it as they wish, but don’t bail them out when they overspend and then don’t have the money they want for something else. Maybe a birthday present for Mom, or a special toy, or sports equipment, or a concert ticket.
Encourage them to play sports, or take martial arts, or dance classes, or learn to draw or play the piano. The idea is that parents cannot buy them skill. They have to practice and learn from their mistakes. You cannot become an artist with someone leaning over your shoulder correcting each brush stroke.
If the busybodies were as vigilant protecting children from real risks, we might get somewhere.
I wonder why some risks are social issues and others are not. Perhaps there should be a government study and 300 page rule book.
Risk of loss of the primary asset, your income, must be addressed. Insurance is inexpensive compared to keeping the risk yourself. Bill Gates could afford to self insure his house. You probably cannot. Your career is worth a lot more than your house.
Talk to an advisor about comprehensive risk assessment and reduction. Even sick children might be covered if you have child Critical illness coverage in place.
Risk management is just organized common sense. The potential saving of doing nothing requires you to be lucky to gain the benefit. Luck is uneven.
As a client once told me, “I believe in miracles. I just don’t like relying on them.”
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