Reality is our model of how the world works. Your model is not mine and we are, almost certainly, both wrong. It behooves us to continuously improve our model.
It will have little to do with how it was made, the data it relies upon, or the ability of the modeller. Its functionality can be best defined by how well does it predict future outcomes. If it produces reasonable short run predictions, it is a good model. If it does not predict well it is a poor tool.
If we didn’t care about the future, we would have no need to understand reality.
Life and games both have rules. Life’s rules are more derived than specified, but they exist nonetheless. Life has a clock, baseball does not. Life can be played by either an individual or a team. Games have a way to keep score, life does too, but unlike games, it has many. Games have objectively verifiable winners. Life does not.
Yogi Berra had a way of expressing deep thoughts, did he not?
In life, the game is always in progress, so objectively we cannot define winners. Interim results are not definitive:
If interim results cannot define winners, interim results cannot define losers either.
Most of what we use for score keeping involves comparison. No comparison is ever complete. We lack sufficient context to make it meaningful. There will always be people better at one aspect of life than you. You may envy them on one metric while they are envying you on some other.
You can do no more. You can use others for inspiration and ideas. You can recognize the role luck plays. You can make mistakes and carry the lesson to the future. You cannot make yourself greater by diminishing others. You cannot define “winner” except by confining it to a specific category.
Constants aren’t. Variables don’t.
Life isn’t easy so don’t have unreasonable expectations. Find meaning. Learn every day. Be a little kind to yourself. Move on to greatness.
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